Yea I think in no particular order for me this is a partial list of my action steps post 2018-19 watershed.
ps destress 101 prescription:
Ignore the main boards 95% of the time (don't worry about what other fans think or say)
That being said make small list of fans of other teams I respect and PM them to chat and follow their posting when time permits (recent exchanges with
@majormajor is an example of someone who caught my attention)
Trade talk between fan bases is a sadistic idea and so far I don't think I have ever seen agreement between fan bases so its negative energy to avoid unless you enjoy arguing with no resolutions for fun.
Ignore what I perceive to be agenda based non Jets fans on our board (this has been a life saver)
leave any GDT at puck drop
I hate losing so I have enough misery on my own I don't need company until I am civil.
Only engage on PGT's after losses to browse and find my favorites to get their reviews. Engage but don't wallow or be part of a group therapy sessions. Posters need to vent but I don't need to listen.
Skim discussions on line combinations but realize it can be a source of frustration since I don't call the shots.
Drop by coaching conversations but get in and out and always read while chanting the mantra (Death, Taxes, and all HFfans hate their coach)
PVR all late games and watch the wins slowly and the losses quickly.
When I start feeling down on the team and my hobby skip a game or two and don't PVR them. Take a night or two off when I need it.
Respect and appreciate differing opinions. If we all agreed this place would be boring.
Mostly I have a few buddies who somehow remain happy inside what appear to be pretty challenging marriages and I have asked them both how they do it (keep smiling and laughing)? They have different answers but if I was to summarize the common thread it would be "Marriage and life are messy and since I am not perfect the key to happiness is
lowered expectations of my loved one"
GJG