I read this article and it made me think of the discussion people wee having re KK on this thread. I thought it might be interesting
It shows that most people misunderstand confidence. Confidence doesn't lead to high performance. Rather, confidence is a bi-product of previous performance.
For example, if you start your day well, you're likely to have confidence throughout the rest of your day. If you start poorly, that prior performance will sap your confidence, even subconsciously.
Get this clear:
Confidence is a direct reflection of past performance. Hence,
yesterday is more important than today. Luckily, today is tomorrow's yesterday. So, even if your confidence today isn't optimal, your confidence tomorrow is still within your control.
Once you've made the first mental shift, you know that your emotional state is
your own responsibility and the product of your choices
. If you want to be confident, that's up to you.
If you want to be happy, that's up to you. If you want to be successful, that's up to you.