As a Dutch fan, Argentina deserved to win the game. This was not a good Dutch side. The fact that they scored their first goal on their 2nd shot at goal proves this.
The tying goal was pretty awesome. The balls to pull that out at that time was amazing. And as much as the PK's hurt, that really felt more that Argentina won rather than the Dutch lost. The 2 saves Emi made were very good, and not because the Dutch bottled it IMO.
From what I saw (was only able to start watching at around the 60th minute), the ref was quite bad, but for both teams. I'm sure you could point to various bad decisions on both sides. I thought in Extra time, Argentina were going down when anyone got close to them, but I'm positive the Dutch would have as well, if they actually tried to do anything with the ball in ET.
The Argentina players pulling stuff like taunting after the final PK is because the game was pretty intense/dirty on both sides. I have no real problem with that. Likely would have happened the other way if the result was different.
And hey, at least we were not a embarrassing as the Germans, so there is that.