Hank Chinaski
Registered User
@Guerzy tagged me in this thread. I saw the title, and my heart sank to my stomach. I had known for about 4 years that Barb had been sick. I had followed up with her a few times, just to check in and see how she was doing. As I've been mostly away from the site for the last year or so and out of mod duties, I had lost touch with her and how she was doing. It crossed my mind a few times to check up on her with a quick PM, see how she was doing. Selfishly, I thought "nah, too awkward, not a subject I want to bring up in case the news isn't good". That will bother me for a long time.
Barb had been something of a confidant for me since 2011, when I first joined the mod ranks. For countless others, as I've seen already (@ThirdManIn I can see has already shared some stories ). She was the one who vouched for me as a light blue mod on the Jets board, then as a global mod, then finally as a dark blue admin. I always think of her as a bit of a kindred spirit - we followed very similar study paths in university, took most of the same courses albeit separated by 20-30 years, and always seemed to share very similar outlooks on life in general. She was also a huge champion of the NHL's return to Winnipeg, and I remember how protective she was of the "Jetties" (those who were on the BoH from 2007-11 will get the reference). To the people of HF, I want you to know how generously and endlessly she gave her time and her deep wisdom to this site. It certainly isn't an easy job as one of the head honchos of this site, but she ALWAYS came across to me as rational, calm, and in control. A model leader, in other words.
I've never personally met Barb, but one thing I can say without reservation is that her love for her family shone through in every communication I had with her, whether it was on the mod board or in private messages. Extremely proud of her children, who all sound like they have gone on to become extremely accomplished adults. Always shared a funny quip from 'Mr. Fugu', who sounded like he was a wonderful and caring father and husband. I know she described herself as a somewhat introverted person - seemed hard to believe, as she was always on the go meeting with new business associates and clients - but on HF, she was an endless builder of relationships and an always present ear for everyone.
Rest in peace, Barb. I hope you know how many people you touched in your lifetime, even those you never met.
Barb had been something of a confidant for me since 2011, when I first joined the mod ranks. For countless others, as I've seen already (@ThirdManIn I can see has already shared some stories ). She was the one who vouched for me as a light blue mod on the Jets board, then as a global mod, then finally as a dark blue admin. I always think of her as a bit of a kindred spirit - we followed very similar study paths in university, took most of the same courses albeit separated by 20-30 years, and always seemed to share very similar outlooks on life in general. She was also a huge champion of the NHL's return to Winnipeg, and I remember how protective she was of the "Jetties" (those who were on the BoH from 2007-11 will get the reference). To the people of HF, I want you to know how generously and endlessly she gave her time and her deep wisdom to this site. It certainly isn't an easy job as one of the head honchos of this site, but she ALWAYS came across to me as rational, calm, and in control. A model leader, in other words.
I've never personally met Barb, but one thing I can say without reservation is that her love for her family shone through in every communication I had with her, whether it was on the mod board or in private messages. Extremely proud of her children, who all sound like they have gone on to become extremely accomplished adults. Always shared a funny quip from 'Mr. Fugu', who sounded like he was a wonderful and caring father and husband. I know she described herself as a somewhat introverted person - seemed hard to believe, as she was always on the go meeting with new business associates and clients - but on HF, she was an endless builder of relationships and an always present ear for everyone.
Rest in peace, Barb. I hope you know how many people you touched in your lifetime, even those you never met.