Nope, it's moving towards snapchat spam...probably 30%+ of profiles are just snapchat ads now. I've had some success actually with Bumble (ended up dating a couple women from there briefly - one just didn't work out, one ended up being a good friend due to distance preventing more). My previous 2 longer relationships actually came from OKC, but there's very little of quality on there these days (which sucks because the questions actually allow you to get a better idea ahead of time of dealbreakers or red flags). POF is 90% spam. I did try Match for a fair bit with a paid subscription, but I got very little communication back...probably because most profiles were filled out for the "free week" but nobody can see/read your messages unless they pay...huge waste of $$. Of course, being in my 30s now as well, most people seem to have multiple kids OR want to have kids ASAP. I'm not against dating someone with 1 kid, but once you get into 2+ dating gets way more complicated. But enough with my dating failures, that's what I have you guys for! (...that doesn't sound quite right...)