Their culture is very different from ours. Serfdom was only eliminated in 1861 which is downright recent on a societal scale; and it was mostly just eliminated in name. Their industrialization process and experiences were also completely different from pretty much anyone else in the West. There are concepts of national solidarity and authority that are unique to Russia and their experience, with a lot of it dating back to the power structure put in place by the Mongolians in the 14th century. The whole thing is designed to centralize power to few people in a way that was highly authoritarian even by the standards of a monarchy, and it has been that way for centuries. That's a hard culture to break, and a hard culture to establish am effective democracy in.
I also don't understand it very well. It's very different. I briefly took a Russian lit and culture class with a Russian professor, who set up a system in class that was meant to emulate Russian values and power structures and the futility inherent to it and I thought that was super clever, but I bailed quickly.
I did a sociology module that looked at national cultures. (as well as my own in depth personal work in this area haha, having lived with two Russians and a Moldovan, and seen two Ukrainians and a Russian!)
"Russia" is quite unique in that regard.
Going off such indices really no other country on earth really has the same extreme combination of:
Being quite reserved... but also very emotionally expressive and direct
Being a very "high context" culture
Being very collective
Being very accepting of societal inequalities
I mean, places like Romania and Serbia are closest to ex-soviet nations... but a lot more individualism and less acceptance of societal inequalities.
I don't think it is "bad" in any way shape or form... just different.
And I like how generally direct people are.
As well as really appreciate the general sense of humour.
And the general appreciation of learning and especially art that really have not encountered in many other cultures.