So basically you are saying that you only value statistics when they agree with your pre-conceived notions? You must have high thoughts of your ability to read the game.
As much as it more or less sounds like, yes.
Advanced stats aren't the be all and end all. Just like watching a player isn't either. But if one is telling you that they are terrible and the other is telling you they are good then realistically it is likely somewhere in the middle. I may have came off hard on Gardiner but by watching him he is not a quality defense men. You can see by the decisions he makes he doesn't think the game through well.
If the numbers tell me a player is amazing and he visually appears to be doing the right thing and getting the job done than I wouldn't doubt it.
If the numbers tell me a player sucks and he visually sucks then I wouldn't doubt it.
If the numbers conflict with what the eye can see or vise-versa than I will probably evaluate other parts of the game that the statistics don't pick up on. I would like to be provided with a stat that tells me how a player reacts under pressure and the results of giveaways. I'd like to see a stat which measures the quality of shots against with Gardiner on the ice.
I am in business currently specializing as an accountant. I like to work with numbers but I also know that the numbers aren't the only thing to consider. There are many external factors which go into one final decision. It isn't just the numbers or just the logic (eyes) that create your final decision.