A couple things here...
1. I've had no problem criticizing this team when they've deserved it--including Belichick. Specifically, the inability of the "genius" to put together a defense the last few years. To his credit, I think he put together a pretty good defense this year. Even without Wilfork and Mayo, the run defense last night was excellent last night against a team that likes to run the ball. In the end, they only allowed 209 passing yards. That's pretty good as well.
2. The offense was very encouraging last night, especially the offensive line. Ran much better than I expected and Brady had a pretty good night. Sacked twice against that defense in their building? That's not bad.
3. The common theme with a lot of their losses in recent years showed up again last night. While I want to ultimately say the defense let them down yet again on that final drive, there's more to it. The bad penalties, the Ridley fumble, the missed opportunity on the 3rd and 1 where we had to settle for a FG, the terrible 3rd down defense...Carolina was 8 for 11! Unacceptable! All the way around, there were plenty of things that happened that impacted the outcome of the game.
4. Speaking of that final touchdown, the thing that's not getting nearly enough attention as it should right now is Talib. If I heard Tirico correctly, Talib was NOT on the field for that touchdown. Is he hurt again? Because this team isn't winning anything without a healthy Talib. Sure, he gave up one long one to Smith, but all the great ones get beat from time to time. Smith for the game only had four grabs for 62 yards, most of which came on one long play. To me, Talib did a very good job in his first game back.
5. The last play of the game was absolutely a penalty. I don't care what penalty it was, just that it was a penalty. There is no debate on that. I mentioned before, that I saw a clear photo of the interference starting where Brady ended up throwing the ball to. It did NOT start where ESPN first showed the contact being made a few yards deeper in the end zone. It happened before that. It was a penalty. While this did not directly cost the Patriots a win, it absolutely cost them a chance at winning the game--a chance they deserved.