ODAAT
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Wedding tonight. Really not feeling it. I don’t know the people. It’s monday. It’s also freaking New Years Eve. I find it a little rude to be stealing this day from 150 people. Oh well. Hopefully i can crush some prime rib, drink too much coke, people watch and be in bed by 11. I’m just in no mood for socializing and everything hurts.
Working in the hospitality industry as long as I have, and much of that in a hotel setting, I am with you there. While I would typically have to work regardless if it`s a wedding as there are always big NY parties at Hotel`s, never understood the NY Eve wedding BS and I have overheard countless guests complaining about it too despite their affection for the couple getting married.
I still like the way Mrs Odaat and I did it, ran off to Barbados last March, just the two of us on the beach for a sunset wedding, no worries about if anyone is enjoying themselves, no worries about trying to please and appease family. My father in law said when I asked if he would be ok if we did this "it`s your wedding day not ours" and gave me his blessing.