1) That part isn't in the show though
2) Suppose you're a serial killer or you dropped a nuclear bomb. One takes a lot longer to do but which do you think puts you on most wanted list?
3) Who says he wants the throne? He didn't join Castle black for the throne or fight the WW for the throne. He won Winterfell and gave it up pretty quick. He may give up the throne.
4) For all we know she is going after Jon too. Clearly they no longer see eye to eye. Even Greyworm shot Jon a look so who knows.
5) Dany kind of went overboard. At this point one episode would not be enough time to close the arc in a peaceful way. The north will reject her, king's landing is toast, etc... There's less stability than before. She cannot be queen as it's back to square one.
6) I disagree. She could be on top but the story can't end with her after she was so volatile. There is zero chance the story ends with both Jon and Dany alive. Dany has shown her loose screws and sees Jon's legacy as a threat. Varys sent the letters did he not? A lot of people know. It's just wayyyy too much uncertainty to end a TV series. It would've made more sense if they ended with Cersei as queen than Dany if they wanted a darker ending. At this point they opened a huge can of worms that they either close or leave the story incomplete.
You have to consider the obvious:
If Dany wins the throne, so what? If we believe her thing about not having children then there will be no lineage and we're back at square one. IF she got pregnant from Jon then maybe, sure but who is to say the child will be either as fierce as Dany or as loyal as Jon? The child may end up another mad king. How is that open ended conclusion viable?
If Jon wins the throne, now what? He still needs a wife and they have hinted at no one but Dany and Ygritte, one of which is dead and the other won't share. He may be the right person for the throne today but again, who is to say his children will good hearted?
The ONLY logical conclusion is breaking the wheel entirely, just like Dany wanted. Democracy OR each city is independent. The north doesn't want to be with the south, the wildlings don't either. IF Jon is there then those in Mareen and all will be upset its not Dany. She said it herself, Jon is lived north of the narrow sea and she's loved south of it. King's landing is not her home.
7) Well...everything has been very hollywood. As I watched last episode and Arya was covered in dust I was thinking "She's alive" rather than in other seasons thinking "Oh shit, she can actually be dead."
Ask yourself after all we've both argued about the script, what seems most hollywood as an ending?
Jon kills Dany, the woman he loves.
Sansa rules the north.
The throne is destroyed. The wheel is broken.
The NK is alive, Jon at castle black to rebuild.
It's the easiest, simplest, most generic hollywood ending and thats why I called it 2-3 weeks ago and still feel it will happen.