I admit, I'd be more than livid. The ref made a great call in the heat of the moment on a rule not many knew about. Apparently, Carey may have know this rule since this isn't the first time he's done what he did. I probably would have flipped the table through the wall when the call was made if the roles were flipped.
And yet, I still don't care or feel bad for the Lightning or their fans. They're on the receiving end. In addition, you don't really end up making friends with other teams fans, even more so after the series is over.
I still remember those series vs Carolina('02 & '06) and Tampa Bay ('04). I've had a part of me that still hates them ever since. Beating the Lightning would pay one of the debts.