tardigrade81
Registered User
Absolutely they do. I completely agree 100 percent. I have never been in a fight in my life that I started. I have always said “I’m experienced in martial arts” as a warning. Usually the jerk laughs and proceeds to fight me anyway.Not meaning this as a pile in but the first thing they used to teach in any martial art I have been exposed to is self control and the importance of NEVER using it unless to save your life or somebody else.
So that the foremost thing was to teach self control prior to teaching ANY martial arts lessons. Is this not still the case?
Adults shouldn't fight, for any reason really. Some people are jerks, so what, they get their life and karma according to that. No reason to punish it. I don't get physically involved unless its to defend somebody from harm. That's the golden rule.
I just meant I used to be fearless, if someone wanted to fight me I didn’t mind stepping up. Now the thought of a fight gives me anxiety. I would likely do anything I could to avoid it now lol.