Former Leafs defenceman Tom Kurvers understands the need for social distancing but the cancer patient misses hockey’s camaraderie | The Star
Then there are the physical vulnerabilities. As the world gets used to social distancing, Kurvers recalls it was something he learned about a little more than a year ago when he was diagnosed with lung cancer. He rarely left his home last February and March.
“I had a couple of invasive biopsies and I needed to recover,” he recalls. “I was coughing and wheezing, having a hard time even carrying on a conversation. I was really uncomfortable. I would see my buddies looking at me thinking, ‘Geez, how long has he got?’”
His health has improved over the months and his prognosis has become increasingly encouraging. But in recent weeks the threat of COVID-19 has changed life for millions around the world, and again altered the landscape for Kurvers.
He is now immunocompromised. He gets a variety of blood tests once a month, and is checked every four months to see if the cancer in his right lung has grown or shifted. Now, with COVID-19 a daily reminder of how we all depend on each other, Kurvers is one of those people who counts on the social conscience of others to maintain the necessary distance in order to protect those with underlying medical conditions.
When you watch those sadly clueless kids on March break in Florida chirping about how they won’t let the coronavirus interfere with their partying, they’re basically saying they don’t care how their health, even if they are asymptomatic, might effect people with respiratory concerns. People like Kurvers.
“I didn’t feel like I was overly in the high-risk category until I started being aware of the virus,” he says. “I talked to my doctor, and he said if I wasn’t as healthy as I was, he would put me in the high-risk category. So who knows?
“I feel good. We keep our family unit tight and we take our precautions.”
Kurvers is working at home these days, which makes it easier to get that daily nap that keeps his energy up. Before the virus, when the NHL season seemed to be barrelling toward the Stanley Cup playoffs, he kept a power recliner in his St. Paul office for those moments when he felt it was necessary to close his eyes.
“I protect my sleep, go to bed earlier,” he says. “The whole fight for me is about sleep and avoiding stress.”