A guy who values a game over his wife and kids isn't something I'll respect. Love the guy, but that aspect of it is ****ing stupid.
Agree 100% although I don't think this is a way to conclude that Duper doesn't love his family. I'm sure he does as much as anyone and is a decent human being. I do think though, it's hard to escape the conclusion this guy is not very bright / does not think things through very well. That's if he's telling this story truthfully / without trying to create a "dramatic situation with a love of the game" type story for PR reasons. Example: something his agent put him up to (wouldn't put it past any agent to suggest a story like this).
But there's a red line here: the decision to be made in that scenario is a no-brainer 100% of the time, and no brain is exactly what would be required to make the wrong decision. Duper made the wrong decision. Respecting his work ethic or heart for the game is one thing, but trying to suggest that heart or work ethic is what this story is all about (that may have been the intention but the obvious can't be over-looked), is a load of crap.
Let's be brutally honest for a second here: this thing he did is not something anyone should "respect" or "look up to" (example: if you're an aspiring athlete or die-hard lunch-pail fan). This is a sign that we're talking about someone who is not big on thinking things through when it comes to his family and life in general. I get that he's wanted to be a pro hockey player all his life, and maybe it's scary thinking "oh ****, 'what's next' could be next month and I haven't even thought about what I would do!" And so in other scenarios maybe you kid yourself that you're really OK and try to play a game with an undiagnosed knee tear or concussion (either of those things would be totally understandable on some level) , but this is something totally different.
Pulmonary embolisms -- you don't **** with that. [This guy's a millionaire. His family's financial security for the foreseeable future is set (unless he made a lot of dumb decisions there too). We can't make that excuse for him.] The medical condition he has, doing what he does, can kill you and leave your wife a widow and your kids with the trauma of watching their father go into the ground. Think about that.
Pascal Dupuis didn't.
Did Kris Letang try to play with a hole in his heart / stroke issues once he knew he had them? No. Did TV try to play once he knew he had to go on blood thinners? No. What Dupuis did was a total meat-head maneuver, and should be accorded the same amount of respect. It was selfish. No other way to put it when you get down to brass tacks. He was scared, didn't think it through for the good of his family, and did something that could've ruined their lives. Maybe his Dad never taught him the value of family being even more important than "don't ever let them see you hurt / let them carry you off the ice", who knows. But at some point, if you're a Dad yourself. Common.
I can't get behind that, even sort of in a "wow that guy has guts" kind of way. I DO hope he makes it back to play some more healthy hockey, I DO wish him and his family the best... but Jeezus. It's hard to fathom that one.