how can you rehabilitate from beating women or child, tell me ?
"oh I see this woman, I MUST CONTROL MY URGE TO HIT HER" it doesn't work this way, it can't be worked over, he's a trash human being with no empathy, probably sociopaths traits.
I have less than less empathy for trash beings who abused woman or child after thoughtful decision and still think to HIT THEM.
it's pretty easy in life, you don't hit women nor child, not complicated.
Well, that's an over simplification of offender thinking.
He knows his actions were wrong (likely), he didn't have the coping mechanisms and self regulation to make better choices (likely)
Our decisions are based on our inner ability to process risk and reward for actions and the ability to gain resolution. In his mind, there was a problem that needed to be solved, of what we likely will never know. Sometimes it's just that people are angry, that's the problem they solved in their head.
Working with people who are abusers isn't teaching them not to hit people, it's teaching them how to process and regulate their emotions and how to identify problems and process decision making. It's addressing anger and addiction and helping them work through their trauma. It's slowing down their crisis thinking and giving them alternative choices to make.
If it's not complicated for you, congrats, you have coping mechanisms and the ability to handle yourself in stressful circumstances. I get you will never feel empathy for those people, there's probably no benefit in you feeling it, but your way of understanding it is based in inherent flaw.
