I might be too naive to understand exactly what you mean by "pseudo-feminism", but to me it came across as simply different experiences and/or attitudes from different people. To me they seem to be showing a lot of real problems with blown up proportions in comedic fashion.
In terms of the relationship thing, I guess we'll see where they take it and how her character evolves. I will say that it resonated with me.
While I certainly don't have your credentials, I don't think I agree that the writing is "terrible"
Dialogue can be hit or miss, and the plotlines might be a touch basic. However, where I think the writing actually shines is in the "meta" side. There's quite a few instances of self-awareness in the writing that make you go (and I have, several times in this thread
) "I see what you did there". I understand if not everyone appreciates that, but I think it's at the very least quite clever.
I couldn't tell you if this is a special thing or whether it exists all over media (as I said I don't watch very much), but for me this sort of thing caught me a little by surprise in a good way. Granted it took a little bit of warming up to, but something tells me that was at least somewhat intentional.
That combined with the increased momentum of the latter half have turned the tables for me.
And while I know this isn't technically part of the show itself, this is just pure gold