I would like to know how this whole situation was allowed to fester and grow for 7 years.
Where were the parents on both sides? How long did Isaiah's parents know this was happening? Did they contact school officials and police? If they contacted school officials, is this an epic fail on their part to underestimate the situation and not follow through? What steps were taken? Did police do anything before the event that resulted in arrests?
Where were Mitchell's parents? A 7 year old is not going to start this one their own.....I don't think anyone is a born racist and it's a learned behavior. Was there mental/physical abuse at home? Home of Mitchell's friend? As someone said, the abused often become abusers.
I feel that both of them were let down by the adults that could have helped prevent such a terrible situation from ever happening.
If you are in a position of authority, and even a parent, please get help for your kids when you notice they are either a victim or a bully. And don't stop until someone listens.
Ya, I think we have to be careful with assumptions on all parts, but there is information that has been reported that helps inform us.
- Court documents and almost every news story state the abuse occurred over a 6 year period, so obviously people knew for that length of time.
- I'm not sure the extent of Isaiah's "disabilities" e.g. how well could he verbalize what was happening, particularly when younger
- Then you have Miller who denied, denied, denied...even in court until a closed circuit video was played showing he and another boy punching and kicking Isaiah
- over all those years was it essentially one person's account against another
- also, Miller apparently would pretend to be friends with Isaiah to draw him in, then start abusing him; so that plays into it all as well
- acts of bullying can also be so sublime and go unnoticed/unreported..but again, it was reported as 6 years of abuse, plus according to the mother and father, acts of intimidation occurred 2 years after the trial
Unfortunately bullying occurs in schools (and other places) despite the best efforts of teachers, parents and fellow students; and those that are bullied are usually the vulnerable, weak, disadvantaged. Isaiah sadly was targeted for most of his childhood by Miller. As for Miller, he did what he did; and has had 6 years to atone for it....and the rest of his life to make amends and become a better person, not because he wants to play hockey at the highest level; but because one day he will sincerely realize it was wrong, and he will want to make up for it and be a better person.
At any rate, it might just be the eventual outcome from this to act as a sincere catalyst for change for Miller...or maybe having kids of his own one day, who knows. But I hope Isaiah has been provided with whatever he needs to deal with the effects, and has the tools to make the most out of his life; and hope Miller for that matter makes the most of his life in eventually realizing what he did was wrong, and hopefully makes an effort to somehow make up for it.