What I should have said was that the thrower
most certainly did not walk down to the glass (where he could be observed by the umpteen cameras in the building, and all 17000 other paying patrons) and throw his sweater over boards with the appropriate accompanying Jerry Seinfeld hand gesture of disgust. Had he done that I would still think he was a disrespectful idiot, but at least he would be a disrespectful idiot who is willing to have his face associated with his "grand gestures".
I have two further points if you would be so kind as to indulge me.
One; in my experience (thirty plus years of attending sporting events and concerts etc), people who throw things at public events are usually liquored up to the gills. I tend to have a
very low opinion of people who think public intoxication is cool. Equating a jersey toss on opening night with people throwing hats when someone scores a hat trick is very simple-minded (and something I would have thought was beneath the level of adult reasoning and debate) because one is a socially accepted tradition, while the other is an attempt to ridicule a crest that a lot of people feel very passionately about.
Two; I dislike people who think they are the most important pebble on the beach. In the act of tossing a jersey there is a disdain for ones fellow patrons (some of whom certainly feel quite differently than the thrower) and an attempt to denigrate the players on the ice (who obviously won't be happy about it).
There is also an underlying implication that the thrower believes he is entitled to more than a seat. None of us are owed a damn thing by the Oilers. Not even first tier fans. We are guaranteed a sixty minute sporting contest, with no suggestion that we will be satisfied with the outcome. That's it. If one doesn't like the product s/he is free to spend his/her entertainment dollars elsewhere. Lord knows there is no shortage of choices in North America. In short, being a fan and buying a ticket does not give a person the right to act like a spoiled child if they are unhappy with the product.
In what manner? Isn't it you now being presumptive? If buddy gets to throw a jersey on the ice, are you saying I don't get to say "well done there ********. You sure showed them"?
I'll tell you what. If someone no longer wants their jersey, no longer wants to support the Oilers as a fan, and is civic minded (and sober) enough to think about the less fortunate then here's what they should do. They should send their jersey to the Oilers office with a letter enclosed saying that their sense of entitlement can no longer bear the shame of wearing this item. They can go on to castigate the team for nepotism, incompetence and general stupidity. Get it all off their chest. And ask that the item be recycled or given away to a fan in need. That would allow them to have their say, ensure that it was actually heard by the Oilers, and help someone else who may not be able to afford a jersey.
But no, buddy had six beers and tossed his jersey (and phone
) from way up high in the cheap seats. Any goodwill that accrues to that gesture of stupidity is thanks to the Oilers, not him. But I presume you knew that before you started arguing the opposite.