I agree that people complain about the refs too much but I will say this Bruins game is a joke with reffing against the Bruins. And if you go through my post history for the past 12 years, you'll see I almost never complain about refs and usually do what you're doing and complain about people complaining about the refs.
I made a deal with myself years ago when I started playing I would never complain about reffing and for the most part, unless it is insanely obvious, I have stuck to it.
My reasoning, 98% of the time (and that is pretty damn good) the right team wins, the calls even up, and justice will always prevail. Today the Bruins won so it worked again (if you feel the Bruins were victims of missed calls).
p.s. Full disclosure, I don't think the refs are as bad as the loudest voices here do so maybe that is part of my take on this. I also love when the refs just let them play.