I am one of those "anti fights" guys. For one main reason, hockey fights are less graceful, elegant, effective, interesting and meaningful than a bar fight over a spilled beer.
For me it's like going to watch a soccer match and all of a sudden the game stops and two guys pull put a chess board and start moving pieces randomly.
There is plenty of good fighting out there, watching a ridiculous version of it while I intended to watch something else screams "waste of time" very loud.
...and this does not even take into account that if fights are slowly disappearing it is not because someone is actively pushing for it to happen, it is just because fights do not win (anymore?) hockey matches, skills do.
And for a team having a skilled player getting sent off and risking an injury will very rarely be worth the "cheers" from the crowd
That's fine. It's not remotely the same thing though...
I absolutely, wholeheartedly disagree with them being meaningless, though. Absolutely disagree.
There's also plenty of good hockey out there where there is no fighting, you can tune into that if the thought of a fight happening bores you, or offends you. I've watched hockey my entire life (I'm 27 years old) - It has always had fighting in it since the beginning of time... Which is why i laugh when people (not you) tell the people who support fighting to go watch another sport. I'll never, ever understand that. Why should I watch something else? I love the game of hockey, I love the skill, nastiness, speed and the physicality of it.
Hockey is unique. If a guy runs your star, or takes him out, he often times would have to answer the bell for doing so. I remember John Tavares getting run by Jared Boll a few years ago, Trevor Gillies came over and went right at Boll. After the fight, Tavares went over to the penalty box, tapped Gillies on the shoulder and said "Thanks, man" - But hey, they're meaningless, right?
Again, the players want fighting to remain in the game. They're all adults. They all know what they're getting themselves into. Don't want to fight? That's fine. Don't try to run someone's head into the boards.