These things are super hard to figure out because of the emotionally charged situation that it involves. No doubt she has been severely scarred. But also no doubt she is super lucky to only come away with those scars.
It makes it even more difficult because the best approach for these kind of things is to think with a rational mind, but how do you do that when emotions override logic? If you're even remotely involved then you can't. If you're a third party, then it's more likely.
But basically, from what I've read, it sounds like a mistake, a freak accident, nothing intentional, whatever. It's like putting your hand on a hot stove.. you literally don't have the choice to keep it there, your brain stem takes over and muscle repulses jerk your hand back. My best guess is this situation is similar to that and also I would guess intoxication to some degree was involved by all parties. Wanting the event to continue meant deciding to re-light the fire, mistake was made, muscle memory took over, a reaction was taken, and an extremely unfortunate consequence came of that.
Dunno where I'm going with this, just sad for all parties involved.
