Can you cite even 1 report that indicates this? You mention it all the time, but I have never read that the Illitches have zero to do with the direction of the team.
And disclaimer, I am not saying that Holland should have zero accountability for anything. He has definitely made mistakes, lots of mistakes. But I have never seen a business model where an owner says "meh, I dont want to have a say" especially when it comes to big picture. I just don't buy it.
99.9% of the time, ownership decides on direction, then asks management (or they do it themselves) to execute on that direction. I'm sure the indivual moves were Holland (ie. re-signing Abby, Helm, signing Nielsen etc.), but the goal of making the playoffs/keeping the streak alive I have to think comes from ownership.
I'm sure the people that loathe Holland will call me an apologist for this, but this is just common sense, but unfortunately emotion will cloud judgement.
As far as your second bold, I agree. Cap wise they definitely have issues, and the D has not been improved in years.