Um...no? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of really. When you get scored on someone usually ****ed up, whether it be the goalie or one of the players in front of him. I have no problem, after I jump out of my seat screaming YEAAAAAA!!!!, and then chanting HEY along with the song, adding in "You suck" because you do suck when you get scored on.
There is nothing disgusting about it what so ever and how you interpret me pointing at the opposing team and shouting "you suck" as insulting to the home team that I A) am paying to see, B) am a diehard fan of and C) just jumped and screamed for joy over as disgusting because in my joy, I felt like letting the other team have it during my celebration, is utterly ridiculous and laughable and the majority of the fan base seems to agree based on what I hear after we score a goal.
And in all the Devils games I've gone too and we're down multiple goals before finally scoring one, I don't hear "you suck" I hear "we suck" and say it myself. That this is actually a serious discussion is ridiculous.