She lost me after the way she behaved at the US Open last year. I watch a lot of tennis now but I didn’t become a serious fan until about 6 or 7 years ago. In that time I thought she was classy and a good ambassador for the sport. It wasn’t until that outburst that I went back and saw incidents through out her career that were really ugly. She can be a real sweetheart when things are going well for her but when they aren’t she’s quick to turn to bullying and intimidation and she doesn’t limit it to just her opponents.
Its funny because I told my son when he was about 15 years old (and just broke things off with a very manipulative girlfriend) that the true version of people will come out when they get uncomfortable. When adversity strikes that's when the real version of someone will reveal itself.
I had to learn that the hard way....thought I would try and help him make better decisions in the future.
In any event I have been watching tennis for about 2 decades. I saw many of those Serena outbursts when they happened. It completely changed my view of her. As you said she puts on a lovely show when things are going well. She also does that when she thinks it will benefit her in some way.
When things go against her thats when shiny wrapping comes off and whats underneath is not pretty at all.
As you mentioned bullying and intimidation are her go to responses. The display at the US Open last year was a statement that she hasnt grown from any of those previous events. I found that so disappointing because I thought that maybe as she approached 40 she would have matured.
She clearly had not.
As I said I totally respect her amazing accomplishments as a player but I just cant bring myself to cheer for a person that acts that way in those situations.