Which is utterly irrelevant. How you claim your marriage works on HF has no bearing on how marriages work in general, especially a marriage like this one.
Which you just said you have your own finances, "for the most part". That's a change from what you said before where you implied there should be total financial independence.
You claimed there's no way someone could be the victim if they trusted their husband and came to find out he's spent everything, cheated on her and wants almost nothing to do with their child. You're wrong so I explained how.
