the worst thing about the internet is that it gives you the ability to read other peoples' thoughts. take a nice walk outside, and youll feel better
What I always used to tell people is that you have to start the discussions you want to have. Tired of negativity around the team? Well, that's understandable, so start a thread on the topic you think is worth discussing. But in the dog days of summer after the team looked really bad and management is still keeping status quo, there's going to be some harsh criticism. That's true of every single fan base in the entire league, particularly those with expectations.
You know what losing teams don't have this kind of negative tone? The ones that have given up on being good in the immediate and embrace the suck as part of their board culture. It become a running joke about the franchise being lame and that humor helps create a community of masochists. There's always that glimmer of optimism, but ultimately it's resignation that next year isn't the year, but hey, things can change in sports so stick with it and maybe in a few years there will be a better product.
The Red Wings are unique. They are a team that continues to struggle to find an identity, neither close to contender or accepting a rebuild. So you have a fan base that's unable to "move on" as it were. The team isn't dead, but it's also not alive. We're left in this limbo. If Holland had a conference tomorrow that said they were unloading a few contracts and rebuilding 100%, the tone of this forum would improve dramatically. Because instead of the narrative being about when this team will finally do something to contend again, the narrative would shift to how the team is making decisions for the future and we'd have something to look forward to.
So in the meantime, what is someone fed up to do? Well me, I enjoy complaining with my friends here about how my favorite team kinda sucks. I get some laughs and enjoy the self-depreciation a bit. I'm not too proud about sports to admit when my team is a pile of garbage stew. It's nothing personal.
But if you're not that type of person, you need to generate the good discussions. Do you want to talk about Larkin's skating? Maybe look at what made Howard's truncated season a success compared to years past? Or you could help kickstart an analysis on Mantha's wrist shot. There's good hockey topics to talk about that don't include dogging Holland. Be the change you want to see, eh?