I finally saw the movie.
My biggest gripe with the movie (the first two movies actually but it was even more accentuated in this one) is that the villains are dumb, ineffectual, unappealing, uninteresting, too easily defeated and are turned into a joke all the time. It makes me care less what happens because they are not menacing. It just makes me wonder what is the next stupid thing they will do.
The comedy act between Poe and Hux at the start killed the tension and just made Hux look and sound completely dumb. The "can you hear me?" bit was a cringe-fest. Felt like he escaped out of the spaceball movie. He's more of a secondary villain so it's not that big of a deal but still it is another example of what I mean.
Phasma and Snoke are jokes basically. Almost zero backstory and died far too easily and stupidly with zero payoff or satisfaction behind it. Especially Snoke who was gloating that he can see everyting in Kylo Ren's mind... what a joke... At least they looked great aesthetically speaking. They're on the Darth Maul scale of villains (if you haven't watched the animated SW series where Darth Maul's character gets fleshed out a lot ). BTW this is who should have been doing the movies, the guy (Dave Filoni I think) who wrote the stories for the animated show.
But Kylo Ren is the worst for me. I know people like him but he's a tall lanky awkward long haired child with a dumb looking face prone to ridiculous tantrums. He gets played by every single character since the first time he's appeared on screen. He got beaten by Rey who had never wielded a light sabre before. Even Snoke piled on at the start of the movie and exposed how much of a joke he is. Continuously makes stupid and bad decisions like send his entire fleet after the falcon, stops the advance of his troops to fight Luke, getting played yet another time. Plus he looks stupid. He's not aesthetically pleasing to the eye. He looks tall, awkward and weak. He doesn't look manly or menacing. He just looks unhinged, deranged, stupid and weak. I just feel like he was terribly miscast. I don't have a problem with the actor's job, I just feel like he's not my idea of a menacing villain. The emperor in the original movies was a great villain. Darth Vader was menacing and threatening. He had a quiet power to him and was never ever turned into a joke at any point in the series. One character attempted to turn him into a joke and the force choke promptly reminded everyone why he is a badass MFer. He kills a beloved character early on with brute force mano a mano. Kylo ren just takes advantage of his father's trust. Makes him look deranged and weak. Then it is never explained how he could have turned in such a way that he would kill his father. Patricide is the act of a deranged person.. or the act of someone pushed to the very edge by an even more deranged father. We need to know how such an unnatural thing as patricide came to be. I was willing to withhold judgement after the first movie until I knew the back story but it seems pretty obvious that there won't be a satisfying one. It's just what it is. Snoke "turned" him, and... Ben Solo just became Kylo Ren just like that.... that easily. To me he's the worst villain I've ever seen. He's not threatening, he's dumb, unappealing. His arc is stupid and he doesn't look the part. Snoke was right when he asked him to remove that ridiculous helm. But it at least hid his dumb long face with his gigantic nose...
Also I didn't like the use of humor in this one. It felt out of place, not sure why. Maybe because the tone of the movie was pretty dark.
I don't like what Disney is doing with this IP.
EDIT:
Another thing that bothered is why does Rey feel like turning Kylo Ren would completely switch the odds in the rebels favor ? With almost no training she almost killed him. Why would she have any respect for his power. It felt wrong.
EDIT#2:
Perhaps another thing that bothers me is the lack of masculine figures in the movie. The male heroes are all dumb. Poe and Finn outright organized a mutiny and were wrong, they went on a wild goose chase and nearly got everyone killed. Then Finn tried to pull off a noble act and sacrifice himself but Rose heroically came out of nowhere to stop him and make him look dumb as hell instead of noble in sacrifice. They turned the legend Luke into a weak old man who cut himself off from the force, wouldn't train Rey, just a hermit... he redeemed himself at the end but.... then just died.
Kylo Ren is a tall effeminate emo child who throws temper tentrums and destroys equipment every 2 scenes he's in.
The most masculine figure in the movie is Phasma...