I guess my only point is that I don't feel like it's disrespectful to talk about the options a player has, nor do I find it disrespectful to acknowledge the way colonial history has intertwined with football, even if it's done in a tongue-in-cheek way. And I think this only comes up in situations where there's a perceived dominant nation; France and former African colonies or Germany and Turkey.
People were not up in arms when America was described as a mini-German national team with Jones, Johnson, Brooks, Chandler, Boyd, Kiesewetter, Morales, Green, etc. As I mentioned earlier, Dest being Dutch was talked about a ton in the leadup to the Round of 16 matchup and no one complained about that.
Or for another example, we saw Embolo refuse to celebrate when he scored on Cameroon for a reason. To ignore that reason seems all the more disrespectful.