Here's what I don't understand about the way you choose to approach this.
We can only be responsible for our own actions, and we can debate hypocrisy on a case by case basis if you want, but two wrongs obviously don't make a right. The fact that Y2KCanucks does it isn't a valid defense for it and doesn't absolve you of going along with it yourself. Personally, I think CanaFan is one of the ones least guilty of getting involved in the mudslinging, but that's besides the point.
Posts like these:
"This is very accurate, the impatient Benning detractors should take note."
.. Are clearly passive aggressive/toxic and contribute to this "Us vs. Them" bull**** that you purport to be sick of. Do you disagree? It's one thing to point out that it happens on both sides, because it does (not by everyone that this gets lobbed at, mind you), but 'liking' that post like you did, seems pretty damn questionable, to me, on your part (I've noticed that happening before as well). You must see that yourself, so why do you do stuff like that? I would have no problem with your posts, if not for stuff like that.