Most female hairstylists hate cutting mens hair as much, if not more than men hate women screwing up their hair. They're in the industry to make other women feel beautiful and play with hair which is something they love.
This used to be my girlfriends occupation and I learned this from her and all her friends. Since then I started going to a small hipster barber shop and the consistency is incredible. I'll never go back.
Now that's not to say that some women don't enjoy doing mens cuts, but for the most part it's the most dreaded part of the day. Most women who would prefer to work on men work at a barbershop instead of a salon.
Wait, maybe I am misinterpreting what you're trying to say here, but I should feel sorry that a woman has to cut my hair because I am a man, and additionally I have to pay for it? If that is truly what you're saying, that must be one of the most illogical things I heard all year.
People have aspects of their job they don't like, if women hate cutting men's hair, then get out of the business or open a beauty shop just for ladies. Don't displease the customer, man or woman with ****** haircuts because "they don't want to do it, boo hoo".