While I agree deciding who is a good leader from outside the room is almost impossible, my experience has been people are willing to follow those that have the experience and skill to make a difference.
IMO EK throwing huge open ice hits and Ryan back checking like his life depended on it had more effect on the team than all the hitting Boro or Neil have done all season.
People follow people that do things that are out of their comfort level for the good of the team. They also have a tendency to follow the people that can help them to be winners, not just the most vocal in the room or with the media.
IMO Boro being handed the 'A' is all about Cameron's believe grinding wins games in the NHL, not skill.
Ryan does this regardless. He plays hard. He is Ryan and plays to his abilities. We can't ask Ryan not to be Ryan. Turris and Stone play hard every single moment of every single shift. No matter what. Playing through injuries? They do that. A lot. That is why they sometimes are not as goid as they could be at max health.
What is the message then to the rest of the crew. Ryan and Stone compete regardless. Pageau, Smith do not need motivation. They are guts players. Playing well. Balls out.
So what is the message of giving Boro the extra A? Telling everyone else that you play like a ******* with Icy Hot on your testicles you might get Boro respect? Good message. In my opinion.
I don't care what anyone says. Neil has been awesome this year. Every game. Doing what he should do. So has Boro. Neil has the A. Boro earned it with massive injuries.
You want mad respect like a middle aged, middle vet gets... Like Boro does? Play like it is the end of the frickin' world. Die for the logo on your chest. I hate to bring up stupid, sick macho crap. Boro was injured in the eye. His eyeball was screwed up and he did not miss a shift. Talking about it the day after... He minimizes the blood and bleeding in the eyeball... As he did not miss a shift or practice, or the next game.
That is sick, stupid old school sh.it. But it is why Boro got the A. Why he deserved the A. Why every single guy on the team knows that Boro would go through a wall to win. As most the roster, the callups know they are more talented, more skilled and better then Boro.
They don't play like him. Only some of them play like they want it like Boro.
Boro as an A with huge injuries to a bunch of vets is the EXACT message to send to the players.
If more skilled and talented players think WWBD it is like bumper stickers saying WWJD. What would Jesus do. What would Boro do? Take a puck
In the face and fight for one extra inch on the ice.
Wiercioch and Cowen still think they are "special".
That is what Puempel and Zibanejad and mcCormick and Prince need to learn and Wiercioch and Cowen and Ceci and Wideman as forwards should do. Play like it is the 7th game of a series for your life. In every game. Every shift. Every moment.
Some players here need that message. And if watching Stone and Turris and Pageau play is nir enough. Watch the least talented but highest committment player get an A and get great assignments with injury.