Looking at this, for me, based on how I perceived Marty's demeanor shifting over the last two seasons, I don't really think its fair to say this organization disrespected Marty.
For the last two seasons, he didn't really look like he "wanted" to be part of the group here. Obviously, he said whatever was necessary to be said when the questions were prompted in his face by the local beat reporters, but
he had that "I don't really care anymore" demeanor about him. All the snarky PR relations with press and he didn't seem to graciously handle his career winding down with a very respectable Schneider in the room. I get it, its hard for a legend to step down, fine.
It looked like Marty wanted to be the #1 or wanted out. Basically, the organization decided to move ahead with Schneider who was entering his prime, (a reasonable move that any respectable organization would make and I would feel fine if they made that same move over again)....Marty just didn't want any part of that transition, only on his terms. It was too much for him to accept a secondary status given how "legendary" he is. Rightly or wrongly, he probably considered that too much of a slight to let go.
I see the narrative that the Devils didn't reach out to Marty, and there are quotes from Marty to say that he was waiting,
but realistically, he had made up his mind and checked out, awhile ago. All the actions speak for themselves. Why didn't he stick around for backup work?
Why didn't he stick around to be a 1b while Schneider shifted to the prime guy? Why did he have his token retirement ceremony with the Blues? Why did he not have his real one here (even after the Blues ones).....Its goes on and on. I just don't see how the org disrespected him...particularly how you see the org had treated past alumni.
Instead, I see that he didn't want to be part of his org, for whatever his reasons and motivations are, and that's his decision.
The guy already has his house for sale, according to this
latest NHL article
he's definitely not sticking around here any longer, at least not for awhile.
If he was, he'd find a way to keep his home here, rent it out, etc. etc. Basically, it looks like he really cut ties with the organization as a whole, and it doesn't have to do with "Lou" stepping aside as GM...., this was in the making for some time already.