I live in LA (rent), but my wife and I are currently planning to buy a house in Phoenix. The plan is to work in LA (I'm a feelancer, with more down time then most) and to spend the rest of our time in the Phoenix area.
Since I may be driving back and forth quite a bit, we've been looking at the westside, like Good Year, or Glendale, and as far west as Buckeye. We figure we can cut a half hour off the commute from California.
I'm a big hockey fan, so I was following the Coyote situation closely and I'm extremely happy with the result. You can bet I'll be out at Jobing.com at least a half dozen times a year.
For those complaining about the politics of Phoenix, just be glad you're don't live in LA. The last election for mayor was between a liberal democrat and... a liberal democrat. This is not a to condemn liberal democrats, it's just to point out that there is no choice at the polls. The irony is that everyone complains about city hall, and yet we elect the same people every election. If you want to open a restaurant in LA, you must pass 14 differenct inspections & inspectors. You'll need in excess of $60-$80,000 to make sure you get throught those inspections. Essentially, this city is not lower or middle class "friendly".
As far as the food in Phoenix, Pizzeria Bianco is better pizza then anyplace in LA and I'm a bit of a foodie, so I eat at very high end restaurants in LA. The bread at Postino Wine bar is amazing and I wish we had a place like that in LA as well. For a great breakfast, my wife and I love "Over Easy" and the pasta at Marcellino Ristorante in Scottsdale I'd put up against any italian restaurant in Beverly Hills.
I guess some may feel "the grass is always greener". I can tell you growing up in NY and living most of my life in LA, that you have nothing to complain about in Phoenix. It's a beautiful city, with plenty to do and I look forward to owning a house there.
By the way, any suggestions would certainly be appreciated.