Backes wanted to spend more time talking and organizing social interests that Backes cared about, things they didn't had no interest in. They wanted to spend that time with Family or friends or whatever they see fit. Imo I have no problem with that.
He also wanted for them to voice to management the way he was mistreated by his poor play. They showed him empathy with the situation. It's not their place to do that. Fight your own fights buddy. Again I'm OK with this.
He has a problem with how Chara and Marchand trained??? They are intense players... that's who they are, that's how they play... Backes comments, "we'll I'll just save my energy for the game tonight/tomorrow."
Again that's not on the players. I don't see the shots at team leadership. I see a petulant child bad mouthing ex teammates, coaches and management for not Adapting to his weaknesses and wellbeing. Like
@finchster said. "He is just making excuses for is predictable decline,"