Not sure why I even bothered reading the main board thread on Blender's dive. That was a mistake.
I think many of us, myself included, could tell it wasn't going to be a good night from the start. The first powerplay was all over the place and we couldn't control the puck. Passes were misfired, rebound chances were lost, we were missing the net like it was our job. Then the 5 minute major powerplay rolls around, Rico's goal is disallowed, Stempniak hits two posts before Kennedy pots one, Blandisi's embellishment. So much went wrong in that first 20 minutes when we could have taken advantage of so much more.
Then in the 2nd and 3rd, the 5 on 3 was a disaster, Palmieri takes a bad penalty that leads to a goal, we miraculously tie it with a 5 on 5 goal and then kill all momentum with our best penalty killer taking a penalty in the offensive zone.
We beat ourselves in this one. Hynes said it best, we got exactly what we deserved.