For sure it would have killed > 1 million in the US alone without social distancing. Their toll is already ~ 100, 000 in <3 months--will be twice their Vietnam deaths and > all their WW1 deaths in a couple of weeks.
The UN Secretary General has warned that COVID is the greatest threat to the world since WW2....maybe he is part of the media conspiracy
The other analogy to war is that the economic impact is very severe but recovery happens faster than people imagine, often prompted by necessary technological breakthroughs and scientific advances.
I do almost agree with your last sentence though--our comfortable lives have made some of us complacent and unable to appreciate a potential catastrophe when it's in front of us.
I have to work now so will sign off. This has been a very civil discussion even if we disagree--thanks!