Drug addiction is such tough one. I believe we must be responsible for our own lives and whether you are success (which itself is not always easy to define) or a failure is determined by your ability to make decent choices. Making excuses for yourself such as my parents sucked, the patriarchy screwed me up, didn't have chance because of racism, poverty, body shape etc, etc... may make you feel better but don't, I believe, in our present society, determine people's inability to make the best of themselves. In fact, I'd say relying on such excuses often inhibits much ability to do so. Ultimately, I believe, that it is one's own personal shortcomings (and we all have them) that results in us falling short of what we might have become. As Shakespeare said - "The fault lies not in our stars, but in ourselves.."
Life is mostly IMO about getting off the mat and facing, with as much courage as we can muster, the difficulties life is going to bring. And no one said it was going to be easy.
That said, addiction seems almost beyond our ability to control. It is rampant in our society. How many people, just to get enough sleep so they can work the next day (and support their families) take sleeping aids and ultimately become addicted, how many people waddle around many pounds over weight heading toward all manner of health problems because they have a sugar addiction, how many live in constant and horrible back pain and seek some relief which they then become habituated to. In many cases it is the physical and chemical demands of your body that is making decisions and totally overriding any mental ability to control these demands. It is something beyond morality or rationally.
Addition is sneaky and happens at chemical level. It is something like Depression. Chemical imbalances are happening which you don't control and they are creating impulses which you can't control. They differ from the kinds of intellectual or emotional rationalizations of poor decisions which can be surfaced and thus considered and decided upon.
I don't know what the circumstances were with Botchford. To me, he always seemed to a high energy, high anxiety, driven person. That IMO contributed to his success as reporter and commentator. But such underlying anxiety can be so strong that it is impossible to control and can drive you to decisions which are beyond your capacity to control.
Life is mostly IMO about getting off the mat and facing, with as much courage as we can muster, the difficulties life is going to bring. And no one said it was going to be easy.
That said, addiction seems almost beyond our ability to control. It is rampant in our society. How many people, just to get enough sleep so they can work the next day (and support their families) take sleeping aids and ultimately become addicted, how many people waddle around many pounds over weight heading toward all manner of health problems because they have a sugar addiction, how many live in constant and horrible back pain and seek some relief which they then become habituated to. In many cases it is the physical and chemical demands of your body that is making decisions and totally overriding any mental ability to control these demands. It is something beyond morality or rationally.
Addition is sneaky and happens at chemical level. It is something like Depression. Chemical imbalances are happening which you don't control and they are creating impulses which you can't control. They differ from the kinds of intellectual or emotional rationalizations of poor decisions which can be surfaced and thus considered and decided upon.
I don't know what the circumstances were with Botchford. To me, he always seemed to a high energy, high anxiety, driven person. That IMO contributed to his success as reporter and commentator. But such underlying anxiety can be so strong that it is impossible to control and can drive you to decisions which are beyond your capacity to control.