I think it’s time to acknowledge that this is a Canadian culture issue within our sport. It’s not just rich American prep school kids.
It’s our hockey players being alpha boy kings wherever they go and being told they can do and say whatever they want because they play a sport well. And a huge infrastructure and apparatus that enables it, riddled with people who have come through that same system themselves.
This is absolutely an issue. While there are lots of players who are humble or 'good natured' or whatever, there are also a ton of players who act like entitled shits.
I used to work in the bar and restaurant industry, and I got to deal with a LOT of NHL players, and some junior players.
One notable story was in December, close to the Christmas break. Members of the Calgary Hitmen came in to my establishment for a team dinner. Since this is a junior hockey team, there were minors. Many of them were asking/demanding to be served booze, were acting like little pissants, and actually did significant damage in our restrooms.
I get that part of it is an age/maturity issue, but they weren't the only younger patrons I had to deal with, but they definitely were, as a collective group, the worst I had to deal with.
Lots of other instances, but I know that this board is strict on 'hearsay', so I'll refrain.
I think part of it, too, is that you have players acting like they've accomplished something great/amazing or whatever when they haven't done jack shit, and you also had asshole firebreathing coaches who would keep these younger players in line. The Crawfords/Babcocks have been squeezed out (largely) but there hasn't been a significant tonal shift on the players side of things.
I'm not sure what the solution is, given these kids are venerated, have potentially millions of dollars coming their way, etc.