That's the tricky part, right? The connotations change depending on your background. Personally, I might describe someone as a "New York lawyer type" and not have the slightest clue that it carries a racial tone (well, not NOW, but two days ago...).
THH, i think i addressed this in my original post. a lot of people say things that have racial or racist connotations without realizing it, and without intending it to be dehumanizing or hurtful. i get that.
. . . i also accept that this is just something people say without thinking what it suggests, and probably isn't meant to be actively racist or hurtful, even though the suggestion is racially motivated.
even if the intention is completely innocent, the phrase itself isn't. just like i have heard a lot of people use the word "schyster" (forgive me for typing that ugly word, but i want to make this point) and a lot of these people have no idea that it is in fact a racial slur for jewish people and has historically been used as such. i think in our lives we will all at some point unintentionally offend people, though i think most good people try to limit this as much as possible. but that's why i pointed at a guy like kypreos, or cherry. when they say "new york lawyer," there is little doubt to my ears that they use it in a much less innocent way than you do.
I'm not convinced they're different, and even if they are that seems to be nitpicking. Prejudice is prejudice.
iain, i respect what you are saying in this thread. and i don't want to keep harping on this point, but i think it needs to be made, so i'll try it one last time.
i think it's offensive to minority groups who have been the target of racism and at times sustained racial abuse to suggest that "prejudice is prejudice." and again, this is not to claim that one kind of oppression is worse than the other, or that one kind of indignation is more valid than the other, just that these are different problems and should be treated in our society as such if we want to see these problems for what they are and work towards a better and less oppressive world.
i have never in my life ever heard anyone say, "i don't want to shake the hands of a swede because swedes are dirty people." (having spent most of my life in north america of course; might i hear this in certain parts of europe? i don't know. what constitutes a stigmatized race is obviously society-dependent, not empirical fact.)
but even just in the context of hockey, i have heard this same sentence spoken about afro-canadians, east indians, and first nations people. kids spitting on their hands before entering the handshake line after a game when we played a team from a part of town with a predominantly punjabi-canadian population. i've heard this from
parents, saying they didn't want their kids shaking hands with a first nations person. very common. even in a society as international and with as normalized a jewish population as vancouver, i have heard the same sentence spoken about jewish people (in non-hockey contexts).
i do think it's hard for people who may have been discriminated against at certain points in their life, but not in the sustained, everyday way that a visible minority is, to fully understand the difference between the cultural discrimination that caucasian immigrants often face, and the racially-motivated discrimination, abuse, and institutional neglect that visible minorities face.
this kind of racism presupposes that the non-caucasian races are inherently inferior, that they are
less than human. less than human. think about that for a second. consider being afro-canadian and every time you walk into a store, you are assumed to be trying to steal something or stick up the place. or being first nations and every time you walk down the street people are wondering whether you are drunk and about to do something crazy like blindly throw punches. to have people think that you are an
animal-- what do you think the banana thrown at wayne simmonds is supposed to mean?
to the bigot, maybe thomas steen is a lesser hockey player because of his heritage, but his son can become a heart and soul player. more to the point, this bigot probably wouldn't mind having alex steen over at his house for dinner, or steen taking his daughter out on a date. what would this same bigot say about wayne simmond's son? that's the difference, and i don't think it's splitting hairs.