Words certainly do matter and it doesn’t mean someone doesn’t have strong character if they have an issue with something somebody says.
I didn't say that words don't matter or that a person with strong character can't have an issue with something someone says (though I can see why that would seem to be the case).
It comes down to the ability to choose. A person with 'strong character' may have an issue with words, but they
can choose to turn the other cheek and not react out of emotions (Note that when I use the term "strong character" I mean that as a clinical description of someone who has
healed wounds and/or
no emotional triggers due to past trauma in the first place, rather than as an elevation of one person over another).
Conversely, people with active emotional wounds don't have the choice to turn the other cheek because their behaviour is
automatically controlled by emotional reactions to external triggers (like words), and this is a big reason why the younger generations are so easily offended by virtually anything. Please note that this is not a slight on anyone else because I include myself in that assessment to a certain extent.
I could go further into the subject of psychology and triggers but I think this is best cut short here lest the thread get derailed further. That said, if anyone would like to continue this discussion with me please feel free to PM me.