I really hate the dentist too. I did not go for years until my wisdom teeth started giving me issues. Then they started giving me **** about everything else and how I need to come in every 4 months or so or else my teeth were going to fall out. Dentists are some of the most rude people ever sometimes I swear.
When I was young (like 18) a dentist told me that I wasn't flossing enough and that it's the equivalent of not wiping your ass (LOL) I'm sitting there laughing at him and he's got this pompous reaction.
I talked to a few other older people than me, who went to him, who had teeth in much worse condition than mine, well, out of the teeth that they still had left. So I asked one of them if this dentist gave him a hard time, and he told me that he didn't and that he even vented to him about his marriage and how much he hated ex-wife or whatever she was. Maybe he only preached to young people haha.
That experience made me not go to the dentist for over 10 years, not even kidding. It annoyed the f*** out of me. None of my teeth fell out or anything, but I racked up some cavities that went unfilled for years.
I've always had an insecurity about my teeth. I feel they're really discolored for a non-smoker/non-coffee drinker. Even when I was a teenager, I look at pictures and think my teeth should have been whiter, and I regularly went to to the dentist back then.
Even when I was overweight and had high blood pressure, the doctors usually didn't give me a hard time. Occasionally they'd tell me ''You're a young guy, you should lower that blood pressure'' but they were usually alright.