I know what you meant. But my excuse is I need time to consider the full package being offered, not that I need to talk to my husband.
I would think that most couples would consult one another on career moves, whether or not they “had to”? Seems like a good thing to do if you want to stay married
Ideally, you keep your spouse in the know, so that when you do get an offer, the benefits are the only thing that need to be weighed. Also, if this isn’t the offering parties first rodeo, aren’t they going to expect you to “mull it over”?
As usual, Lonnie is just trying to cause trouble (the fourth constant in life after death, taxes, and the noise outside being Lonnie peeping through your window).