This is exactly why the grievance has some legitimacy IMO. You are kind of let on by the game industry that this is a form of entertaiment where you are in control (unlike the passive linear entertainment aficiado morons). But, scratch the surface, and you find out that the scenes you get are what the programmer has preconceived and made for you. Some games are very offensive with there being but a straight pipeline from one cutscene to another where you presumably control things, but not really. The programmer has knowingly programmed every possible action, and what isn't programmed, you can't do.
Expecting anything else isn't very smart obviously, because the technology isn't quite there yet to make a game where they just set the ground rules for the universe and let you loose to do just anything.
(Other than this immense simulation where we are in, of course.)