I only drink when I read the posts on this forum
PP if you ever feel the need to unload, private message me anytime. Even if I am your most hateful shit-disturber trouble-making and out of wack devils advocate. Drinks will make it forget in the short term but will not make post go completely away.
I also lost my 92 yr old father two years ago also in St Thomas, I know the feeling. Take time to celebrate his wonderful life as you are sending him off on his last journey.