I’m becoming increasingly disillusioned with the narrative that’s going around currently from some of the press. That’s not a surprise; most barely qualify as journalists anymore.
First let me state a few facts before you decide to pile on and turn this into something it’s not.
Rape is a horrible thing. It’s horrible for the person [male or female] that has this act perpetrated upon them. It’s horrible for their families and friends as well.
To me the ‘too drunk to consent’ aspect should apply both ways. It’s patently unfair to suggest it only protects women. We are in a society that continues to preach equality yet we allow things like this to permeate the legal landscape and create predator versus prey scenarios. It’s frankly disgusting to me.
As someone who has lived in the world of law [police family] I do believe in innocent until proven guilty and the growing implication that I have to condemn Kane due to the beliefs of ‘journalists’ is annoying at best and scary to be honest. I’ve read a couple different articles today that don’t just imply, but outright say that if we continue to be fans of Kane we are doing nothing more than condoning rape. We aren’t his friend, we aren’t his bro. I concede the point that we don’t know Patrick Kane. We know this public image of the frat-boy hockey player that he’s cultivated, but honestly this guy doesn’t know Patrick Kane either and he had no more grounds upon which to stand than any of us as fans do.
I’m sure it’s likely been referenced already, but think back to the Duke Lacrosse thing. The reports all came out and these lacrosse players were nothing more than rich entitled white guys who took advantage of and raped this poor, hard working stripper. Most people probably still think of it essentially that way. Problem is, the accusation was false. The girl lied. People lost their jobs, the university did suffer some embarrassment, reverse racism cries came out. All because this girl lied. That could have happened in Kane’s case as well, or he could have viciously attacked and raped a girl. I’m guessing it might be somewhere in between.
Obviously I have no idea what happened in Kane’s house during this incident. But I wish we lived in a world where journalists reported the facts instead of trying to tell me what to think.