You probably have a better scope to assess that than I do.
Can't really contribute as much to this thread as I'd like since I started watching hockey (and specifically the Wings) a bit later.
This will probably be long-winded for those of you that want to pass. But what I remember most about the three greatest Wings I have seen in person is this.
As was stated in the first two, Yzerman is really impacted the most for the younger fans. It is hard to express just how good he was early in his career. For me he was the clear cut third best player in the league behind Lemiuex and Gretzky for a little while. He also had a better two way game than is really talked about. I realize he bought in even more when Bowman came and was less willing to trade chances, but he was drawing the top line checking assignments for years. Really the difference was once Fedorov fully developed Yzerman had a lot less of a burden in my opinion. But there is a reason his nickname was Stevie Wonder before simply being known as the Captain. He was an awe inspiring talent.
In my first Red Wings games as a very little kid in the 80's they are remembered primarily by this. The Wings had little talent, they were mean and Yzerman would score but they were going to get blown out most nights, it was on Stevie to drag the score up while being surrounded by okay talent that underwhelmed compared to who they were playing. I like Gallant, Sheppard (later), Johnny O (he was very good) and Burr, but they weren't what a lot of other first lines were running. Burr, Kocur and Probert would get the crowd rocking. Yzerman was good for at least five offensive dynamite plays a night while being dynamic in transition, he was always a good back-checker as well. He was the reason you came to games, you knew Yzerman would deliver something great a couple times a night.
I got Lidstrom's jersey right after the pre-season while begging my dad. I had rocked a Joe Kocur jersey until that time. He had been traded to the Rangers. Everyone had Stevie jerseys or Probert and I liked that while Kocur had a smattering in the crowd he was less prominent in the jersey department. I thought Lidstrom looked incredibly good. He never missed a pass, he was a great skater and he looked like he would be here a long time. No idea he was as good as he is now, I actually think liking Lidstrom all those years though helped how I watch hockey in terms of you could marvel at all the small stuff he did.
Lidstrom had the ability to strangle the game away from the best in the game. He was so flawless it was like a snowball rolling down hill on other guys. He just shift in and shift out wore you out. Made you try things you weren't comfortable with and punished you for nearly every mistake. The beauty of Lidstrom's game was how minimal it could be. He rarely held the puck for too long, he always put it tape to tape, his stick is the best stick I have ever seen, always in the right spot and incredibly strong even when one handed. At ice level you could see him manipulate passing and shooting lanes opening the game apart. He was never rushed and never flustered, even when it seemed like the game was getting away from the Wings one Lidstrom shift could turn the game right around.
Fedorov is actually my favorite player probably. To watch him in person never got old. I could watch Fedorov skate until the day I die with a smile on my face. The most beautiful stride, agility and control I have seen. When Fedorov was aggressive offensively he reminded me of young Yzerman but with the size to get inside more often. He had a devastating array of tools, there was nothing he didn't do well. Center, Wing and Defense, he could do anything and it made him a target at times for people who wanted more.
Really it was an honor to watch all three. I think Lidstrom especially given the consistency gets the edge of the three in terms of the best player. Fedorov has the best peak. But Yzerman for me is the best Red Wing. He embodied everything it meant to be a Red Wings player. He was the leader, he changed the culture. He made hockey fun again in Detroit and overtime they shifted from the team of fighters around him to one that could maximize his skill and drive. They followed him, what Lidstrom developed into in my opinion is in part because of Stevie. They all elevated each other and they bought into the culture that Ilitch, Devellano and Yzerman built.