Initially I was on a similar wavelength as you. I had thought how on Earth could a 1OA be caught with his head down looking at the puck even once, let alone multiple times. I thought he was a dummy. I was simply more open minded when I saw the flashes of brilliance he showed late last year and early this year and continuously since then.
I think the difference between a jaded, pessimistic fan and an open-minded one is the humility needed to accept a simple fact: you simply don’t know how it’ll turn out, so you might as well not spew the downsides as if it were inevitable.
I think this was the most informative thing to my understanding of fan commentary. I can see why people would think the critics and doubters were rooting against Slafkovsky when (in the eyes of us critics and doubters) we were just “being real” in as far as we could see it. I think, mods permitting, it is a decent topic to discuss -- was it just our (negative, pessimistic) priors making us jaded? But Slaf
was a very low productive 1OA. And he
was underwhelming big time in his first 39+20gp, and he
was taking big hits and not making big plays. But today... to me, he looks like a completely different player right now. He skates around like he has a spotlight on him, like he's a genuine star. He uses his reach and his speed to devastating effect. He's making show-off passes and showing off incredible nimble puck technique. Did he have this all along? I'm sure he did (because why else would he be so heralded by a large part of the NHL professional community and the Habs org?) but I refused to see it or I couldn't see it.
The fact is, other than being argumentative and bullheaded, my analysis was also super wrong. I have to look into what I got wrong and how I got it wrong and become better at watching/following hockey or simply not comment as much on things. Otherwise, the safer and better bet is to be positive, optimistic, and fair to the other commentators. A genuine learning experience on my side.