This seems to me like people are reading into this too much (particularly the Dispatch).
I'm sure Coach York is used to losing players to the CHL, potentially losing players to pro teams is part of any big college coach's job. Further, I could read the CBJ statement as standing on its own without any perceived animosity from BC. It's the truth. Both programs are excellent programs and the Jackets have abstained from influencing his decision.
Hopefully the indecision stops here and Milano has a productive CHL career (however long it may be) and then becomes a productive player for the CBJ for many years.