If you don’t want people to personalize a discussion I’d suggest not doing so yourself by suggesting their opinions are dumb or that they’re living in the past:
Fair enough. Point taken about name calling.
But I still disagree that players appreciate it or think it has a lot of value. They react on the bench because that is the behaviour that is expected of them. There is no audience, so they have to bang their sticks and cheer. They've been programmed to do it.
I am fairly certain though that if you asked Stutzle if he would like the team to call up Haley to go beat up Danault for him, he'd probably find it absurd.
I have teenagers and they have a very different mindset. My son is Stutzle's age and has played competitive hockey, football, lacrosse. He's a big kid and back squats in the mid 400s, benches mid 300s, etc. I asked him about the fighting in sports and he doesn't get it. It wasn't a thing for him growing up. His friends and team mates don't look for it. It's not much of a thing anymore. The fight Gudbranson had with Kassian was so lame. It wasn't entertaining. And Kassian got injured. It made the NHL look silly. I just don't think fighting in the NHL still has the same importance that you believe it has.