Yep, I agree with this.
No one wants their favourite Uncle as a coach. Even though it would be all buddy-buddy they wouldn't get to learn anything.
I want a guy like Sutter who just makes sure to hold people accountable and he doesn't rave about his players, all of his press conferences are just the straight honest truth without saying too much.
For example a media member might say well "Quick wasn't so quick tonight, what are your thoughts?" Sutter would say something like "defense was slow, offense was slower, so yeah quick had an off night."